THREE

of CUPS

This is a card of…

Conviviality

Grace

Community

Good Company

Spontaneity

“If more of us valued food and good cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.”

-J.R.R. Tolkien

A beautiful card! The Three of Cups shows us a joyous scene of conviviality and closeness. Imagine an afternoon picnic with loving, supportive friends, everyone in the best of spirits. Food and wine are shared, toasts are made, and every minute we spend seems a blessed gift because we get to share it with each other.

This card revels in close connections, trust and good humor. To whom do you feel such closeness and goodwill that celebrating their success would be as joyful as celebrating your own?

This is not a formal gathering, often not even a planned one. The Three of Cups is about how trusted good company can create it’s own spontaneous celebration.

There is one cautionary note to the Three of Cups: there are usually symbols of autumn harvest in the foreground of the card. These magic moments come at their own time, we can’t force them and we can’t make them last forever. It’s important to know when the party is over. Trying to force it will stain the grace and joy it brings.

The Suit of CUPS:

  • Emotions
  • Empathy
  • Relationships
  • Spiritual life
  • The Unconscious

The THREES:

  • Nature of the suit
  • Harmony
  • Truth
  • Simplicity

Meditations/ Questions for a Three of Cups Day

Is there a gathering in your memory that this card makes you think of? Who was there?

Imagine hosting a party with the perfect guest list for you to feel relaxed and happy in their company- who is on the list?

Do you know somebody who suffers social anxiety? How do you think you might help them when you’re both in company?

We need to be open to spontaneity if we want to enjoy the kinds of events this card represents.